It’s Okay to Be Wrong & Learn From It

Nobody likes to lose. As people, we gravitate towards positive outcomes. So, it makes sense that few of us believe it’s okay to be wrong. Still, it’s important to find the lesson in making mistakes, no matter how big or small. So, let’s dismantle those fears and start growing. It Doesn’t Mean You’re Unintelligent There …

In Case You’re Forgetting to Choose Yourself Today

You forgot to choose yourself again, didn’t you? Don’t fret. We all do it, no matter how tough we think we are. There comes a time where we need to re-calibrate and try again. We can’t always get it right, but we can always strive for optimal growth. Let’s shift ourselves back into our center. …

Polyamory Wasn’t for Me, and That’s Okay

I tried polyamory. It didn’t work for me. Like every breakup, I took it pretty hard. I convinced myself I wasn’t mentally or emotionally strong enough to handle a polyamorous relationship. So, I sat back and truly analyzed my emotions until I realized something. I am not wired for polyamory, and that’s okay. Like many, …

How to Express Your Feelings, Even When You’re Wrong

It may be a hidden topic you didn’t know you needed to discuss. Yet, like many, you want to know how to express your feelings, even if you feel like you’re overreacting. There’s a specific kind of danger we associate with expressing emotions, especially when we feel our emotional response is “wrong.” We’ve been conditioned …

Give People the Same Energy They Give You

Stop accepting bread crumbs from people while giving them endless amounts of your time, patience, and energy. You are human, and humans have limits. You deserve better than what you’re getting back in terms of reciprocity. Give people the same energy they give you. Our culture teaches us that we must be altruistic, 100% selfless …

14 People & the Worst Thing a Friend Ever Did to Them

We’ve all had some fairly crappy friends growing up. You may even have some crappy friends now. Have you ever had a friend so crappy they screwed your fiance in your bed? Threatened your life? Stolen from you? Probably. Hopefully not. Below are some crazy stories of people telling us the worst thing a friend …

9 OkCupid Users Tell Their Dating Horror Stories

I think we can all agree dating apps suck. Yes, they’re user-friendly and simple to navigate, but they’re also full of strange, mentally-deranged people. You can log onto an app right now and see that same weirdo who’s ALWAYS online. Go do it right now, then come back. See what I mean? OkCupid users posted …